Oct 07 2009
wHeN iT HaS BeeN Too LoNG…Too Far…
Again..cerita pasal perasaan lagi..layaaaannnn…
I think I am right when I contend that being in a too long ‘vague’ relationship, precisely for unmarried women-men would lead to bored, less excitement, less-appreciated, less-caring partners..thus, eventhough we called it as ’too long’, but in reality, it is actually ‘not really long last’…the longer you be in a indefinite relationship, the harder your life will be…you bet!
For this post, please exclude the married couple..I’m sure they enjoyed their definite love till death do them apart..like our mak and ayah…even if they gaduh2 pn, gaduh2 sayang, kalau ayah sakit, mak tau ayah sakit coz they are in the same house, and could take care of each other..but what if for pasangan yg bukan suami isteri, yg tk duduk serumah, yg berkasihan tetapi berjauhan, how do they show their love?..how do they tell their partner that they cares? ..ofcourse..you can phone them, you can meet up, you can meet in virtual online chatroom, you can send emails, sms, letters, cards, postcards, bla bla bla…BUT I’m very sure for women, these are not the main things that they ask for…they just hope their men to reciprocate to what thay’ve done to them , that’s all..eventhough men are slow and late to start all these…women can wait..wait and wait…men don’t have to repay more to them…tk payah nk buat lebih2 or hadiah mahal2..just do as they do..it is simple as that…for instance, if they sent u sms, just reply them…rather than you ignore the sms and call them only after being reminded by her again…remind…remind…remind…I think this will remain the main job for women in their life…fuh!..tapi kalau ingatkan skali org berubah tkpe la..kalau ingatkan bnyk kali pn mcm tu jugak…entahla…
anyway, please la friends, men and women..love and cares your partner full heartedly la wei..take things seriously, even it is a simple sms from him/her…try to reply them when u are free…atleast the sender tak risau…bukan senyap seribu bahasa…so for me, if we have been in too long relationship, sooner or later it will troublesome if sebelah pihak je yg cares..it is better to cure this before your partner kecik ati..sebab ubat nk besarkan ati susah nk dpt wo..huhu…
~~~~~hope for a long last definite relationship~~~~~
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