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Kepulangan supergirl ke Malaysia baru2 ni lama juger..3 bln lamanyer..the main reason nyer data collection katenyer..so, mmg kena ingat n sematkan dlm hati la spjg tmpoh 3 bln tu her phd work should be her priority. Tp, mana lah mampu di tahan2 dek supergirl dgn excitements yg lain2 tu..mcm..jln2 cari pasal kat bazaar ramadhan, preparation raya, gossip2 ngan kengkawan, tolong catering family, ingatan kat SUPERMAN, tolong kawan buat research paper…dll..tp kali ni wlpn supergirl  kat msia lama, tp masa rasa mcm tk cukup je..coz thn ni supergirl beraya di Muar.  Jd tk sempat la nk jumpa kengkawan masa raya kat Ipoh, since seme kengkawan dh naik keje n dh blk ke KL…termasuk la si SUPERMAN tu…2 kali je jumpa..masa supergirl mendarat kat airport, skejap je lak tu..huhu..

Mula2 supergirl ada gak berangan di dlm ati nyer kalau2 dpt dia jumpa SUPERMAN nyer itu utk ke-sekian kalinyer before dia blk Edin 3 Oct tu..rupanya, SUPERMAN kena terbang ke Bangkok and Hatyai 2 Oct tu, ada tugas menanti katenyer…berat btul hati supergirl nk lepaskan superman pergi.. tapi, kan SUPERMAN ada KERJA, bukan SUPERMAN pergi berlibur (bhs indon ke jawa entah)..maka dgn senang hati supergirl melepaskan SUPERMAN nyer pergi…kerana KERJA and TUGAS, supergirl rela..auw!..supergirl sentiasa berdoa agar SUPERMAN dpt menjalankan kerja2nyer dgn smooth nyer..supergirl  terharu sgt wlpn SUPERMAN busy memanjang dgn KERJA, superman tk lupakan supergirl nyer…and supergirl harap, ianya kekal mcm tu smpai bila2..(p/s: supergirl suka gmbr2 SUPERMAN masa KERJA kat HATYAI tu..encem..kalaulah superman ada kat KLIA ngan supergirl masa tu, best je kan?..)

Buat kengkawan yg lain, yg tk sempat jumpa raya baru2 ni, mcm NUSRAH, LIN, FAIZAH, ROSE, DIANA, MUSLINDA.. aku fhm korang busy with other commitment..it’s fine. Insyaallah kita jumpa gak nanti. Apa2 jgn lupa update dgn aku ni..kawen ke, dpt anak ke, nk tunang ke, pindah rumah ke, nk putus tunang ke, nk kawen lain ke..ok??…hehe..love n miss u all dear friends!…

tiga bulan di Msia bagaikan SEMALAM ajer ek..huhu

Again..cerita pasal perasaan lagi..layaaaannnn…

I think I am right when I contend that being in a too long ‘vague’ relationship, precisely for unmarried women-men would lead to bored, less excitement, less-appreciated, less-caring partners..thus, eventhough we called it as ’too long’, but in reality, it is actually ‘not really long last’…the longer you be in a indefinite relationship, the harder your life will be…you bet!

For this post, please exclude the married couple..I’m sure they enjoyed their definite love till death do them apart..like our mak and ayah…even if they gaduh2 pn, gaduh2 sayang, kalau ayah sakit, mak tau ayah sakit coz they are in the same house, and could take care of each other..but what if for pasangan yg bukan suami isteri, yg tk duduk serumah, yg berkasihan tetapi berjauhan, how do they show their love?..how do they tell their partner that they cares? ..ofcourse..you can phone them, you can meet up, you can meet in virtual online chatroom, you can send emails, sms, letters, cards, postcards, bla bla bla…BUT I’m very sure for women, these are not the main things that they ask for…they just hope their men to reciprocate to what thay’ve done to them , that’s all..eventhough men are slow and late to start all these…women can wait..wait and wait…men don’t have to repay more to them…tk payah nk buat lebih2 or hadiah mahal2..just do as they do..it is simple as that…for instance, if they sent u sms, just reply them…rather than you ignore the sms and call them only after being reminded by her again…remind…remind…remind…I think this will remain the main job for women in their life…fuh!..tapi kalau ingatkan skali org berubah tkpe la..kalau ingatkan bnyk kali pn mcm tu jugak…entahla…

anyway, please la friends, men and women..love and cares your partner full heartedly la wei..take things seriously, even it is a simple sms from him/her…try to reply them when u are free…atleast the sender tak risau…bukan senyap seribu bahasa…so for me, if we have been in too long relationship, sooner or later it will troublesome if sebelah pihak je yg cares..it is better to cure this before your partner kecik ati..sebab ubat nk besarkan ati susah nk dpt wo..huhu…

~~~~~hope for a long last definite relationship~~~~~